Violence as a Consequence of an Estate Plan- Can Planning/Drafting Help? A Simple Provision in a Deceased Mother's Will Sparks a Son's Shotgun Rampage Causing the Death of Four

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In this video I discuss violence, threats of violence, and retaliation as a consequence of estate planning choices, and whether planning and drafting can avoid or protect a family from such a tragic consequence.

Trigger warning: the subject matter considers heartbreaking examples of violence including death. This video reports a recent tragedy in which a simple provision in a deceased mother's will sparked a son's shotgun rampage, causing the death of four, and discusses estate planning and administration considerations to prevent similar violence and harm.

The case example discussed is from a report in the Daily Mail, "Simple request in Long Island woman's will sparked her son's devastating shotgun rampage on siblings." (last retrieved 10/10/2024). The Daily Mail article was brought to my attention by Professor Gerry W. Beyer's article, similarly titled.

The video discusses, among others, the following considerations and strategies in an effort to reduce or eliminate the threat of tragic outcomes:

• Drafting Considerations;

• Considerations Regarding Communications with Family;

• Securing Documents;

• Physical Security;

• Identifying/Reporting Threats/Troubling Behaviors, Mental Illness & Grief;

• Logistics of the After-death Family Meeting including Timing and Location.

The video highlights the importance of worst-case scenario planning, and keeping a continuing relationship with a trusted advisor with whom such topics can be discussed and considered openly and thoroughly.

Additional Resources:

• Estate Planning for the “Troubled” Adult Child, Walecka Law, P.C (last accessed 10/3/2024).
• Estate Planning for families of individuals with mental illness (neurobiological disorders), DJ Jaffe (last accessed 10/3/2024.
• Planning for Beneficiaries With Mental Illness or Addiction, Amanda Koplin, Amy Effman, Martin M. Shenkman (9/15/2020, last accessed 10/3/2024).
• How to Avoid Family Conflict with the Right Estate Planning, Hermance Law (last accessed 10/3/2024).
• Top Estate Planning Tips for the Dysfunctional Family; Doug Luftman (last accessed 10/3/2024).